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January 6, 2009
“The unexamined life is not worth living” ~~ Socrates
Over the holiday break, I rented several movies for my tribe. Most were movies for the masses: action-packed, mindless fun, which is what most people want in a movie these days. They should come with a disclaimer: “You don’t have to think with this one!”
Don’t get me wrong. I am no movie snob. I love a chase scene, followed by an massive fireball, ending with an over-the-top gun fight as much as the next guy (or girl, as the case maybe).
But SOMETIMES I’d rather watch a movie that makes me think, and feel something. A movie that reminds me of my “human-ness.”
So, in the stack of movies I brought home, I included one for me: “The Visitor.” No one wanted to watch it with me (of course) so I had to wait until last night.
I loved it. It’s slow paced, dialogue driven and smart. No explosions, no fist fights, no raving mad men toting guns and no monsters.
I’ve been thinking about it all day.
How many of us stumble through our lives, wondering who we are, what we want, what we like, how we feel?
It takes courage to look under the surface and question the status quo. Allowing these questions to surface can mean acknowledging we aren’t living authentic lives. Then what do you do? Deal with it? Continue to ignore it?
The movie reminded me how important it is to examine your life. To tell your truth. To find a your passion. To connect to other people.
To live. To truly live.

January 13, 2009 at 22:33
My favorite part in The Visitor is where Walter tells Tarek’s mother that no, he’s not busy at all, he hasn’t done any work in years! He has been pretending to work. The beauty of it is that he realizes this in that instance, and that he admits to it with such grace and acceptance. I loved this movie. I loved the character transformation, and I fell in love with Tarek … Could say a lot more, but don’t want to give it all away! xo~
January 13, 2009 at 23:01
Response to newsoutherner -
I loved the same part of the movie. And I related so much to Walter that my eyes welled up. I’ve been there. I also loved how he slow broke out of his shell. It started with finger tapping, foot tapping and ended with a dance with the drum. Loved it!
I also loved Tarek!!
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